What Women Want

It absolutely baffles me. I was talking to a female friend of mine the other day and we were discussing sex. Not a kinky what kind of positions conversation, but a deep conversation about our current sex lives. She was explaining to me how she went through a "bad" spell and significantly increased her number of partners; one of which whom she is currently dating exclusively. I really cannot say that this surprised me as she was bragging over the past month or so about all of the dating that she had been doing. When she told me that I already knew what was confirmed the other night.

As a guy, we have sixth sense of smelling out the girls who we know are going to put out easily and who aren't. When we meet a girl in a club, a bar, on the street, myspace, work, etc. we are able to pinpoint the right "targets" depending on our intents. At the time she told me about her sudden spike in dates, I bit my toungue (pretty hard in fact) from saying "Well that is because you put out". I thought to myself, if I am wrong I will feel terrible. However, I knew that I was right.

So this leads me to my next question; why do women feel that they can use sex as power? I am under the impression that women such as my friend feel that they are in control when they are having sex with multiple partners like this. It is a sign of power over men and it makes them feel better. Well, the bitter truth is that we know what you are doing and we prey on you.

Now, I am by no means a prude. I have my fun and know a fair share of women who I have or want to take home for a night of fun. I also know that there are women that I possibly want to date. Let me tell you how disappointing it is when a girl that I feel the latter about tries to jump down my pants after one or two dates. I mean come on, can we please have a little self respect? Sometimes, I just cannot get a grasp on what women want.